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Wednesday, September 30, 2015

a tip on building confidence

Somehow, I have found myself 325 blog posts deep and still without a clue as to what I am doing. I feel the same way in life usually.. almost 29 years into this thing and I still find myself lost, pretty much daily. What I have learned in all this time, is that confidence is key. Another thing that I have learned, is that often times my confidence is nowhere to be found. Thanks self esteem.

So, what does one do when confidence is the key, but you lost your key after too many margaritas last night? You obviously put your lipstick on, and here's why. If you have ever worn a bold shade of lipstick before, I can guarantee that at least one person has said something along the lines of, "I love your lipstick. but I could never wear a color like that." Girl, please. Why the hell not? Anyone can wear a color like "this," it's easy, you just put it on. Then you walk around like you were born to wear it. 

I promise, if you portray confidence long enough, people will start treating you differently, you will start feeling differently, and eventually, you really will be that confident woman that people already thought you were. You can literally buy confidence, and they make some really affordable options. So, next time your husband questions why you have 20 liquid lipsticks when you live in an airstream, you confidently tell him that it is because you are investing in your future.

Do you have any tips or tricks that you use to help boost your confidence?


  1. I recently started making an effort to wear lipstick and I swear you are 100% correct with this. No one can stop me when I've got on my lipstick! Mmmhmm.

  2. Haha, I really need to start wearing lipstick! It's just never been my thing. I'll wear a super bright outfit when I'm feeling down or not so confident. I don't know what it is about a bright pink dress, but it seems to help me. ;) I probably look ridiculous, but I don't care.